How To Suck A Cock
Sucking a man's cock is one of the pure pleasures in life. It's sad
to think that many women don't appreciate just how much fun it can be.
The reason for this is they don't know how to do it correctly and so
it doesn't end up being much fun. Because if you mess up, you don't
get your reward. The cock doesn't get hard, the man doesn't have a
good time and the woman feels like a failure. But here's the good
news: It's easy to learn how to be a terrific cock sucker. And I'm
going to tell you exactly how. It doesn't matter what setting you
choose, you can be home in bed or parked on Sunset Boulevard, but seek
whatever level of privacy you need to feel relaxed and sexy. For now,
let's say you're on a couch. You're with a man
you like and you know he'd love to have a good blow job about now.
Slip down on the floor between his legs and open his fly. Reach in
and touch his prick. If he's hot for you, it will already be hard.
If he's nervous, it may still be bent up inside his shorts. Grab hold
of his cock and lean up to his face and kiss him. See if you can feel
a response down below. Any movement is a good sign. Now pull his cock
out and see how it stands. If it's straight up, you're doing great,
otherwise, here's what to do: Pull his balls out. If the pants are
too tight, pull them down. Now hold his balls in your left hand and
his cock in your right. Squeeze it gently down toward the bottom of
the shaft and get ready to suck. Run your tongue over your lips to get
them good and wet and look into your man's face. He wants to watch
you suck him off. Men love to watch. Now open your mouth just
slightly to tease and excite your man and come very close to his cock.
Breathe on him, blow on him with your hot breath. Stick your tongue
out again and reach for him, tease him. Making sure your tongue is
dripping wet, begin at the bottom of his shaft and lick upwards,
slowly. Turn your head sideways and pretend to take a bite of him,
gently setting your teeth into his flesh. Wet him again with your
tongue and use your hand to spread the liquid around if necessary. A
wet cock looks and sounds a lot sexier than a dry one. Your left had
meanwhile is massaging those balls, perhaps scratching them lightly
with your fingernails. You may also want to reach behind and
underneath the balls to get to that ever-so-sensitive area just before
the anus, or even to run your fingers over his asshole very lightly.
Since the muscle that cause erection originates back there, this will
produce a reaction in his cock. After you've licked his shaft lots of
times and it's all wet and hard, your man is going to start squirming
with frustration if you don't start getting serious. A quick look up
at his face will let you know when you're taking things too far.
Teasing is great...to a point. A little experience in cock-sucking
will educate you as to just when that point has been reached. On one
of your upward swings with your tongue, from the base of his shaft to
the rim of his knob, don't stop. Continue your long, wet lick over
the top of his cock, lingering at the hole in the center. Stick your
tongue into it, if you can, but don't suck the head yet. Now run your
tongue around the rim of his knob, all the way around,making frequent
passes on the tender skin directly facing you. This is where most men
are the most sensitive. But not all men! That's one thing a good cock
sucker has to learn to do, as soon as you're comfortable, that is.
Ask questions. Each man is unique and so is his cock. Squeeze the
shaft and see if some clear liquid pops up. If it does, dip your
tongue into it and pull away. It will stretch with you and look
fantastically erotic to your partner. Now, make like you love the
stuff. Close in on that cockhead like it was chocolate ice-cream and
take the whole knob into your hot mouth. Hold it there. Listen to
him moan. Now down quickly and take as much of his cock as you can
get into your mouth. Don't worry, you won't choke. If you bend your
neck in just the right way, you can take it clear into your throat.
Stay there, with the cock down your mouth, for just a moment. Feel it
inside of you. This can be almost as luscious as having one in your
pussy. It grows on you. At this point you can do several things. This
is one of them: Slide back up to the tip of the cock and flick your
tongue against it. Your man will be getting antsy now, wanting you to
deep-throat him some more. But don't let him bully you. If he had
his way, it'd be over in two minutes and what fun is that? Moving as
fast as he can handle it (don't let him come yet), slide up and down
on his cock as if you're fucking him. If he gets too close to coming,
stop, or at least slow down. If you can't get all the way down to the
bottom of his prick, you can cheat a little by using that right hand
of yours to complete the sensation of deep throating him. It still
looks as if you've got the whole thing in your mouth and still feels
like it. You can also slide your fingers, made in an O-shape around
the shaft, up and down with the rhythm of your sucking. That's
another thing. Besides just mouthing the cock, you can suck it which
is quite different. There are deep-sucks and little ones and both
feel damned great. Your man may have a preference, however, so watch
his reactions. Taking just the knob in your mouth, suck it as if it
were a nipple or a straw. This feels so good tot the man, it makes my
pussy hot just thinking about it. The other suck is a long, sweeping
one, where you take the whole cock and suck it all the way up like you
would a popsicle and then go back and do it again, sucking on the way
down as well. Here is an important thing to know: Any of these moves
will feel great the first few times or more, but after a while, it's
as if the cock gets immune to feeling. When you sense this, it's time
to move onto your next play. You don't want the cock to go to sleep.
You want it constantly stimulated, almost, but not quite, to the point
of orgasm. Which is just about where we are now. You've got a raging
hard-on in your right hand and some tight balls in your left. Lean
back and take a look at it. It's beautiful, isn't it? Move your right
hand all the way to the base of the cock and squeeze it there. This
will cause the shaft to fill and thicken, and by now the knob will be
shining and smooth. Continue to take the prick into your mouth and
suck and try out all your various moves until you know the man can't
stand anymore and he's's going to blast off. What you do now is
between you and your lover. Personally, I like to watch it shoot. It
gives me visual images for my wet dreams and besides, it's a thrill to
see the spurting cum. It's amazing how much of that stuff comes out
and how far it shoots. If you want to watch, you'll feel it coming
with your right hand and know when to back off. You can even try to
catch some on your tongue if you're fast. You might want to swallow
it, some girls do, and lots of guys like to have it swallowed. Be
careful to back up a little when it goes off though or you'll gag on
it and that's not too romantic. Take it into your mouth and hold it
there and then swallow it. Another solution, and this is a nice one
too, unless you're making love where you can't make a mess, is to let
the warm, wonderful juices gush into your mouth and then slide around
the already wet cock. It make it so slippery and delightful to touch!
You'll want to run your hands through it, feeling that hard cock all
the way up, smoothing the glistening cum over the knob. This makes a
great sensual image too, for you and for your man. Now you've given
your man a blow job that he'll not forget. Believe me, if you follow
my instructions, this guy will want to see a lot more of you. I've
heard from men that one woman in fifty knows how to give good head.
The rest act like it's a big favor. Which is another point i should
make. If you don't like to give head and you've tried to learn to
like it and it still doesn't work, don't give up. Maybe you'll like it
more as you grow older. Men say older women are much better at giving
head. But I should warn you, there are a lot of out here who love to
give head and we're going to be stiff competition for you shy ones. I
know women who can even have orgasms sucking cock. One final note,
this time for the men: Don't push it. There's nothing more deadly
than having a man push your head down there. Just wait. If she's into
it, she'll get around to it, sometimes not until the second time you
make love. And if you give her time, she'll learn to like it.
Pull his cock out and see how it stands. If it's straight up, you're
doing great, otherwise, here's what to do: Pull his balls out. If the
pants are too tight, pull them down. Now hold his balls in your left
hand and his cock in your right. Squeeze it gently down toward the
bottom of the shaft and get ready to suck.
Run your tongue over your lips to get them good and wet and look into
your man's face. He wants to watch you suck him off. Men love to watch.
Now open your mouth just slightly to tease and excite your man and come
very close to his cock. Breathe on him, blow on him with your hot breath.
Stick your tongue out again and reach for him, tease him.
Making sure your tongue is dripping wet, begin at the bottom of his
shaft and lick upwards, slowly. Turn your head sideways and pretend
to take a bite of him, gently setting your teeth into his flesh. Wet
him again with your tongue and use your hand to spread the liquid
around if necessary. A wet cock looks and sounds a lot sexier than a
Your left had meanwhile is massaging those balls, perhaps scratching
them lightly with your fingernails. You may also want to reach behind
and underneath the balls to get to that ever-so-sensitive area just
before the anus, or even to run your fingers over his asshole very
lightly. Since the muscle that cause erection originates back there,
this will produce a reaction in his cock. When you really know your
man, or even if you don't, place your index finger in your mouth
getting in very wet and work it into his asshole. If he voices
opposition just keep working. The pleasure will quickly take over and
he will thank you for it in the end.
Open your mouth and take him inside slowly keeping your tongue wet at
all times. As you increase the speed of the action on his cock, make
sure to acknowledge his moans of pleasure with words of encouragement.
Ask him if he is enjoying you sucking his cock. Make him know you are
the one giving him this pleasure. Keep teasing don't go to fast and
cause him to cum too soon.
When you start to hear quicker moans and his balls begin to tighten
you are bringing him close to orgasm. The decision to watch the cum
shoot out into the air or to keep it all inside your mouth is your
own. He will be happy either way. When he does cum, keep sucking
until he begs you to stop. His cock will soften and you will have a
chance to lick up any cum you missed or landed on his stomach. If you
really want to take you man to new areas, lick the cum off of his cock
or his stomach and work your way up to his mouth. With a devilish look
in your eyes he will not refuse a deep kiss.
Most importantly remember to have fun and go slow.
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